Whatsapp Status Phobia

A few days ago, I officially removed my whatsapp status. The reason being, sometimes I'm busy replying my work related work and my friends keep asking me, "why you online no reply me?", some lagi worse, instead of pursuing me with an explanation, decided to cold war with me all the way when I replied to their whatsapp at night.

I've heard ridiculously many stories about how whatsapp status affects friendship, kinship or whatever boy-girl relationships. Come on la, we are all grown-ups, I'm pretty sure we can be a little more mature instead of camping around all the day wondering why this person or that person doesn't reply you. I know sometimes it hurts to see the person online but he or she is not replying you, you feel unwanted and not prioritised. And many people also told me that the quicker the person replies to you, shows how important you are and if that this person is actually a keeper.

For me, not true actually. Even to my own personal friendships and relationships, I do not pressure my friends to reply me or even my boyfriend, despite seeing them online. Everyone needs personal space? Even your best friends, your lover, your mom or etc. (but this does not apply to acknowledging that you've read the text. I DEMAND people to reply me at least one word "ok" if they had read it, because it's basic courtesy! It's ok if you don't acknowledge immediately but come on lah "ok" need 1 min? (Probably my mum needs, she's a technology noob trying to learn new skills) but "ok" apparently does not need a min. It only takes about 3 secs of your precious time?

BUT IF THE PERSON DOESN'T REPLY YOU AFTER A WEEK YOU CAN PROBABLY FORGET ABOUT THIS PERSON REPLYING YOU. I have a principle of checking my whatsapp every night, to the best ability I can, so I don't miss anyone's msges. But if I do, I apologise for it because sometimes the chats are too overwhelming if I don't mute them and the old chats will be pushed to the bottom.

AND I ALSO BELIEVE THAT THE 2ND TICKS DOES NOT MEAN THAT THE MESSAGE IS READ. Because it happened to me and I did not read those messages. Probably I accidentally opened it or you can view this link here to explain to you why : http://crackberry.com/whatsapps-dirty-little-secret-second-check-mark-does-not-mean-your-message-has-been-read 
Not that I'm a supporter of blackberry, but I do miss how blackberry messenger was such a joy to chat in. I used whatsapp because it's just dominating, since all my friends had it. I prefer Line and Kakaotalk! Super kawaii emoticons.

Ok abrupt end.

24 comments:

  1. What's more, while they may appear to be unusual or strange, they are very normal and effectively clarified.
    curing trypophobia links

    ReplyDelete
  2. Pretty good post. I just stumbled upon your blog and wanted to say that I have really enjoyed reading your blog posts. Any way I'll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you post again soon. Big thanks for the useful info. best whatsapp status

    ReplyDelete
  3. You there, this is really good post here. Thanks for taking the time to post such valuable information. Quality content is what always gets the visitors coming. community manager whatsapp

    ReplyDelete
  4. Intently trailing WhatsApp is the Facebook Messenger. As the name recommends, it was to be sure created by and is claimed by Facebook Incorporated. It flaunts 1.4 billion dynamic clients as of December 2017. It is by and by introduced on 87.5% of all Android gadgets available for use. It has an installment choice which is still in beta variant right now.
    espiar whatsapp de otro movil

    ReplyDelete
  5. Awesome and interesting article. Great things you've always shared with us. Thanks. Just continue composing this kind of post. Whatsapp group links funny

    ReplyDelete
  6. Regardless of whether it be an independent company or enormous business, the WhatsApp marketing can be invaluable to any size of the organization.https://groupslinks.info

    ReplyDelete
  7. Top Link Building resources at SEORankOne1

    ReplyDelete
  8. Dial 1-888-500-9609 (Toll-Free) to Fix Epson Printer Error Code 0xf1 under the guidance of well experienced and skilled Epson Printer Support technicians.

    ReplyDelete
  9. Aqualite offers Flip Flops for kids, Kids Sandals, Kids Shoes which are available in variety of designs and colors.

    ReplyDelete
  10. Logstics Data Bank provides container tracking solution for Gateway Rail Freight ICD container tracking, bharat mumbai container terminal, ameya, apollo logisolutions, balmer & lawrie and many more.

    ReplyDelete
  11. If you are looking for bottle moulds industries then AcmeDisys providing service like Pet Preform molds Inserts, pet preform moulds, etc.

    ReplyDelete
  12. Very informative post! There is a lot of information here that can help any business get started with a successful social networking campaign. API whatsapp business software CRM

    ReplyDelete
  13. How brilliant a blog can be, who could have ever envisioned that.
    تنزيل واتساب مجاني

    ReplyDelete
  14. You ought to basically fantastic not to mention solid advice, which means notice: espionar whatsapp gratuito

    ReplyDelete
  15. I like your post. It is good to see you verbalize from the heart and clarity on this important subject can be easily observed... Download video song new tamil

    ReplyDelete
  16. We have sell some products of different custom boxes.it is very useful and very low price please visits this site thanks and please share this post with your friends. conheça o WhatsApp GB APK nova versão

    ReplyDelete
  17. A meaningless article would result in a discontented reader and a client. Avoid this situation by asking your writers to research the material before writing an article, opinion, or essay about the topic. Best Dissertation Writing Service

    ReplyDelete
  18. I really like following your blog as the articles are so simple to read and follow. Excellent. Please keep up the good work. Thanks. I also have a blog related to Brother Scanner not connecting to Mac issue hit this to solve your problem.

    ReplyDelete
  19. Thank you for another great article. Where else could anyone get that kind of information in such a perfect way of writing? I have a presentation next week, and I am on a look out for such information.
    Mac Error Code 8072

    ReplyDelete
  20. This is such a great resource that you are providing and you give it away for free. I love seeing blog that understand the value of providing a quality resource for free. visite este site

    ReplyDelete
  21. I’m truly enjoying the design and layout of your website. It’s a very easy on the eyes which makes it much more enjoyable for me to come here and visit more often. Did you hire out a designer to create your theme? Excellent work! Buying Likes

    ReplyDelete